Erma Joe Neeley was born September 4, 1953, in Clinton, OK, to Ernest and Georgia Fern (Miracle) Frazier and passed away Monday, June 24, 2024, at her home in Weatherford, at the age of 70 years, 9 months and 20 days.

Erma was raised and attended school in Weatherford. She met Thomas (Tommy) Eugene Neeley in Cordell, when she hit his car!  Erma and Thomas were married December 16, 1970, in Wheeler, TX and made their home in Weatherford.  They later moved to Dill City but returned to Weatherford.  Erma enjoyed watching her grandchildren; thrifting at the Et Cetera Shop; socializing with people, going to the park, attending church; Pow Wows, genealogy; attending the kids ball games; and spending time with family and friends.

Erma is survived by her husband of 53 years, Tommy Neeley of their home in Weatherford; three sons, TJ Neeley and wife, Grace of Weatherford, Scotty Neeley and wife, Elsa of Weatherford, and Justin Neeley and wife, Christa of Elk City; one brother, John Frazier of Weatherford; three sisters, Alta Reber of La Mirada, CA, Joyce Little of Bakersfield, CA and Frances Brooks of Weatherford; ten grandchildren; and one great-granddaughter.  She was preceded in death by her parents; sister, Rosie; and two brothers, Ernest Jr. and Doil Frazier.